I'm kinda doing a summary of the most important information from the book. I'm not going to ignore material that may not be important for seduction because the idea is that you get to improve your all around life.
Like it has been said many times body language account to 55% , tone of voice to 38% and voice to 7%. When we say fuck routines, canned lines and shit like that this is the reason why. With strong body language you will communicate what you want. With strong lines, routines and material and poor body language you are going to get NOTHING. That being said lets continue with the topic at hand:
Bad handshakes:
1. The wet fish: the worse handshake, cold and clammy. Some asian and african cultures use it as they consider a strong handshake offensive. Feels like a fish in you hand. If you hand sweat a lot before approach keep a napkin or something to keep it dry.
2. The vice and company(I wont use the actual list of the book) - the vice is a handshake where you press the hand too hard. A variant its the finger crusher, same thing but you actually feel the fingers going between each other.
3. Pumpers and Pullers: those are when you pump the arm way too much or way too hard. Usually two pumps is good enough. If the person is keeping their personal space dont pull her in. She will open up with rapport, being physical will worsen the deal. This happens when a person stretches their arm and wants to handshake from far away. Usually people from rural places have a bigger personal space.
4. The finger grab: a women, well, as women they are not handshaking as much as men, they are also not teach by other persons on how to do it so many women don't know how to handshake properly. If a girl gives you a finger grab handshake and she is not doing it to maintain her personal space, grab her hand with your left arm and guide her hand, do it properly. She will get this as a sign of rapport because it shows you want to do things right with her. It will be a nice gesture from your part and its something shes going to remember you from.
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