Extensive Body Language Material Part 1

 Handshake

One of the very basics on BL is a handshake. The position of your palm demonstrates your position in the interaction:

if your palm is up it means you are submissive
If your palm is down it means dominance(example the nazi salute)
If your palm is vertical it means equal footing.

Whenever you want to meet a person you should try to use the vertical position. The only way where I would use a submissive position is if I  got like 10 dudes surrounding me and they want to beat me up like a piñata because I was hitting on his GF. Even in that situation being dominant could help more than submissive but that's a whole different topic.

Then theres force, if you use more you show dominance, if you use less than the other person submissiveness. 

Touching the elbow or the shoulder with the left hand shows intimacy between the two of you. Since handshaking in a bar is something thats not very sexual I encourage you to use it.

S(these S will Summarrize the previous point into a simple sentence): When meeting a new girl, go for the vertical handshake and use equal force as hers.This will create rapport between the two of you. With your left hand touch the elbow of the shoulder, this shows intimacy and its a great way to establish Kino early on.

Smiles:

Two sets of muscles control the cheeks and retracts the eyes. Everybody can fake a smile, the true smile that cant be held back or faked is the one where the eyes also close a little bit. Its called a smile with the eyes and its pretty much that, the smile and the eyes getting closed. Like this:(yay tits : P )

Sincere smiling produces wrinkles around the eyes. Smiling shows submissiveness. It asks for acceptance from the other person. When someone lies and smiles the left side gets more pronounced. When people lie they tent to smile less since they realize that people associate smiling with lying. When you get in trouble and you are innocent and actually telling the truth you are in a sbmissive state. Thus you tend to smile more, while people lying try to hide the smile and other signs of body language believing it actually shows they are being truthful.

There are 5 basic types of smiles

1. tight lipped smile: this one shows that the person is hiding something. 

2. twisted lip smile- in this one the person is smiling only on one side of his face. the other side remains serious. This smile is mostly done in the Americas and it means sarcasm.

3. Drop jaw smile: its a type of smile where the person is smiling with his mouth widely open because his jaw is opened. This one shows that person is happy or playful.

4.  Sideways looking up smile: Its used to gain affection. Was widely used by princess Diana. In courtship it means approach me.

5. George Bush grin: Its mostly a custom from being from the south(Texas) where people are used to always smile. If he were not people would think hes angry or unhappy about something. In the north people think that he knows something he doesn't want to tell.

S: if you see a sideways looking up smile don't walk over to the girl, RUN!

I will try to post examples of all these smiles and gestures later tonight. Will work on part two in the next couple of days so be on the lookout.